Hashtag #MarriageStrike has been trending on social media as Men run a campaign against draconian one sided and heavily biased women centric matrimonial laws in India. According to comments by most men who have participated in this trend, the term “Marriage Strike” seems to be the only solution to protect the Human Rights of Men in India.
This campaign is in retaliation to yet another law (#MaritalRape) that could be passed in favour of wives – which may be used less, but misused to a great extent to dominate, dictate, threaten and extort husbands.
One of the key arguments at court and feminists have been that they agree there is misuse of laws (particularly Section 498-A of the IPC), however, they do not even want to discuss and deliberate the tsunami of false cases that this gender biased law, based solely on the testimony of wife, could bring in.
What is Marriage Strike?
The term “marriage strike” refers to a movement by Men in India educating young boys to keep away from the institution of marriage, as they could be targets and victims of emotional, mental, physical and financial losses from divorce following false cases.
A perception that marriage is a financial disaster for Men in India, especially during divorce settlements, is generally believed to be driving the marriage strike phenomenon.
Myth Spread By Feminists
To counter #MarriageStrike trend, several feminists and pro women portals have penned endless tweets and blogs, labelling all Indian Men as Wife Rapists, merely because they are opposing and debating such a biased law.
Dr Meena Kandasamy had levelled several charges against her husband on twitter sometime ago. Here is the husband’s side of the story:
Link: Dr Meena Kandasamy’s Ex-Husband Accuses Her Of Demanding Money To Drop Alleged False 498A Charges
In reality, if Men are against #MaritalRape law, it does not mean they have any license to rape their wives. The angst and backlash is because most of them have faced severe consequences due to false cases by their disgruntled wives – be it false dowry case, false domestic violence case or even false POCSO accusing husbands of sexually exploiting their own children (to deny child custody).
As per law, police needs to register any criminal complaint received by the woman against her husband and in-laws. Investigation is secondary, and then it takes years and decades for Husbands to prove their innocence. Several men have seen their own parents dying by suicide or passing away due to harassment and trauma of false police cases.
The system has armed only and only wives, not even sparing old mothers/fathers, aged grand-parents or married/unmarried sisters of husbands and husbands of married sisters as well.
Men have lost jobs, careers, respect, dignity, custody of children on mere complaints by vicious wives. Despite cruelty being proven at courts, Men are compelled to cough up huge sums of money in Alimony, irrespective of duration in marriage. Whether a woman is married for a day or for several years, she is entitled to lifelong maintenance from her husband, even if she chooses to file a frivolous case, walk out in adultery and live separately.
Petitioners in the PIL and feminists in general are comparing 100 other countries to push another biased (#MaritalRape) law, but, what they don’t tell you is that every single law in those countries is Gender Neutral. While a man in India does not even have a basic Gender Neutral Domestic Violence Law in his favour, and on the other hand feminists keep pushing endlessly for more and more tools of mental and financial harassment to men.
If anyone says “Lets discuss misuse of laws on another day”…he/she is only mocking the misery of several families that have been ruined thanks to; 1) politicians playing gender card and; 2) feminists advancing their motives to keep the legal extortion system running.
Men will SPEAK UP, Men will VOICE their opinions. Sorry, it does not label them as Wife Rapists. For far too long, women empowerment activists and motivated groups has ensured to tag every man – who has an alternate opinion to feminism – as misogynyst or sexist. But this time, Men will make themselves heard LOUD & CLEAR. #MarriageStrike
Here are some of the tweets that have been trending:
Please read all articles below to understand what Married Men in India are already facing due to Gender Biased Laws. & NO, these are not one off cases
Join the campaign with hashtag #MarriageStrike & #MaritalRape on Social Media
How All Violence Is Forgotten By Wives, Once Money Is Received –
READ ORDER | Issue Of Adultery To Be Decided Later, Not During Grant Of Interim Maintenance To Wife: Delhi High Court
Wife Living Separately Since 10-Years Not Consenting To Divorce & Is Only Interested In Maintenance | Gujarat High Court
WATCH | Daughter-in-Law Lived Only For 4-Months, Filing False Cases & Taking Maintenance Since 8-Years: Faridabad Family
READ ORDER | Supreme Court Quashes All Criminal, Civil Cases After Husband Agrees To Pay Rs 90 Lakh Alimony & Property Transfer To Wife
READ ORDER | Though Marriage Has Been Challenged By Man, Court Is Concerned With Interim Maintenance & Nothing More
SC Invokes Article 142 To Grant Divorce To Man Who Separated From Wife 16-Years Ago; Husband To Pay Rs 25 Lakh Alimony
Divorced Wife Demands Maintenance Under Sec 125 CrPc Despite Receiving Full & Final Alimony; Matter Referred To Higher Bench
READ ORDER | Wife Cannot Simply Invoke Domestic Violence Act To Claim Maintenance
READ ORDER | Wife Is Entitled To Maintenance Under Section 125 CrPC Even If She Unilaterally Divorces (Talaq) Husband
Fully-Abled Husband Has Moral & Legal Responsibility To Pay Wife Even If He Is Unemployed
READ ORDER | Husband Is Responsible To Maintain Wife Even If She Possesses Higher Education Qualification
My Daughter Won’t Cook & Needs Rs 10,000 Per Month For Personal Expenses | Wife’s Mother To Family Court
Wife Can Ask Husband’s Salary But Husband Cannot Seek Wife’s Bank Details Under RTI | Two Contrasting CIC Orders
Husband Agrees To Pay Rs 22 Lakh Alimony For 14-Day Marriage | Wife Drops Domestic Violence Charges
Allahabad High Court|Husband Responsible To Pay Maintenance Even If Wife Chooses To Live With Child At Her Parent’s Home
Wife Chooses To Live Separately; Court Orders Jobless Husband To Pay Maintenance
Yuvraj Singh’s Brother Settles Divorce for Rs 48 Lakhs; Estranged Wife Akanksha Drops All Domestic Violence Charges
Physically-challenged man raises money through crowdfunding for paying alimony to fully-abled wife
MARRIED MEN DIED BY SUICIDE 2.5 TIMES MORE THAN MARRIED WOMEN IN INDIA (2020) –
Kanpur Teacher Shoots Himself After Alleged False Dowry Case By Wife & Not Being Allowed To Meet Daughter
Man Ends Life After Wife, In-Laws Allegedly Filed False Cases & Harassed Him For Rs 1 Crore Alimony Settlement
Jalandhar Man Ends Life Within One-Year Of Marriage Accusing Wife, Mother-in-Law Of Harassment
Man Ends Life After Wife Allegedly Shows Her Intimate Pictures With Boyfriend, & Humiliation From In-Laws
17-Year-Old Male Student Dies By Suicide Due To Alleged False Molestation Complaints By Female Neighbour
Watch Last Video | Hyderabad Banker Dies By Suicide Alleging Harassment, False Police Complaint By Wife, In-Laws
Phagwara Man Dies By Suicide Accusing Wife, In-Laws Of Humiliation & Child Alienation
Other Side Of Beti Bachao | Sonipat Family Dies By Suicide Due To Alleged Harassment By Daughter-in-Law, Her Family
28-Year-Old Sonepat Man Dies By Suicide Due To Alleged Harassment By Wife, In-Laws
65-Year-Old Man Hangs Himself To Death Due To Alleged Harassment & Threats By Daughter-in-Law
Gwalior Railway Doctor Dies By Suicide Alleging False Dowry & Assault Cases By Wife, In-Laws
60-Year-Old Man Ends Life Due To Alleged Harassment & Threat Of False Dowry Case By Son’s Wife & Her Family
Aai Don’t Worry, I’ll Be Born As Your Son Again | Pune Man Ends Life Alleging Constant Harassment By Father-in-Law
READ ORDER | Supreme Court Drops Abetment To Suicide Charges On In-Laws Despite Four Notes By Deceased Husband
Senior Citizen Couple Ends Life Due To Alleged Constant Harassment & False Dowry Cases By Daughter-in-Law
Forest Officer Ends Life After Alleged Demand Of Money, Property By Wife & In-laws
Husband’s Parents End Life At Hisar Court Following Constant Harassment, Violence By Daughter-in-Law’s Relatives
2015 Suicide | Wife Filed Dowry Harassment, Unnatural Sex Charge Two Months After Husband’s Death
Vadodara Man Ends Life Due To Constant Threats Of False Dowry & Domestic Violence Cases By Wife
Medanta Hospital Doctor Dies By Suicide; Father Accuses Daughter-in-Law Of Extra Marital Affair
38-Year-Old Techie Ends Life Due To Rs 50 Lakh Alimony Demand By Wife, In-laws To Settle False Cases
Mumbai Man Ends Life Alleging Harassment, Threats Of False Cases By Wife, Mother-in-Law & Wife’s Maternal Uncle
Noida Man Ends Life Alleging Constant Alimony Demand of Rs 60 Lakh By Wife, In-Laws
“I Am A Strong Man, But My Life Became A Living Hell Because Of My Wife” | Neeraj Dutt Suicide Case
Husband And His Parents End Life As Wife Threatened To File Harassment Cases Against All Of Them
39-Yr IIT-IIM Grad Commits Suicide, Due To Demand Of Apartment Plus Rs 50 Lakhs From Wife, In-Laws
ALSO WATCH –
#Bhopal | Working Woman Files Maintenance Case Against Ailing Husband Suffering From Cancer
Marital Rape Debate | Prejudiced NDTV Anchor Barkha Dutt Shuts Down Other Side
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