I Said No To Marriage, Girl Forced Me To Continue Relationship; Now Her Family Is Giving Me Threats

I am going through a lot of mental torture and trauma mam. I met a girl on tinder last November and she insisted to move in with me after a couple of meetings . She told that she want a relationship with me in the first week …to which I told her that we can be friends for a month and later see how it goes.

She did not like the idea of being friends and in the very first week wanted to move in with me. When I resisted the same, she rented a flat which was just 500 meters away from my society.

Everyday she started coming home and stayed over with me. Whenever I used to stop her and tell her that I did not agree to this everyday meeting thing…she would cry and continuously bother me till I agreed to let her stay daily.

I tried different different ways to keep her away and convey to her that I was not interested in her. There was a time I even spent a night at my office. This is when she asked my flatmate to call me on pretext that she had forgotten her apartment key, so that I could return to my place. 

On one occasion, when I strictly stopped her from reaching out to me, she went into some bar and started drinking. She also asked one of her friends to convey to me that “she was in very bad condition and needed my help asap”. All these things continued for 3-4 months and I literally gave up asking her to go away.

Now everytime she is used to blackmailing me with her tears or scaring me of doing something to herself. All along, I have never told her that I love her or have any feelings towards her. She herself started talking about marriage couple of times, to which I firmly clarified that I did not intend to marry her.

She would again insist to continue like this as friends ’till we got married’.

During COVID lockdown, we both moved to our hometown. She permitted me to go to my place, on the promise that I will return in one month. However, I did not want to return and wanted to stay with my family till the ‘Work From Home’ thing was on. After a month, she started fighting with me insisting me to come back.

Its been five months that she has been constantly pressuring me to return. In the last two weeks, the situation has worsened so much that she has given me an ultimatum to marry her. Once again when I told her that I neither wanted marriage nor this relationship, she asked her mother’s friend along with some guy to threaten and blackmail me.

These guys have been continuously harassing me to talk to her by mentally torturing me. They have forced me to talk to the girl daily, else I could face severe consequences. In a way, I also felt that they were giving me death threats. They are some influential people from a district in Karnataka with their connections in other states as well.

Because of their threats, I had to agree to speak with the girl daily as per agreement. However, because of all this I was so frustrated that one day, I lashed out whatever frustration was building up inside me in a long text to that girl.

To this, she slit her hand and sent pictures to her influential friends and I was threatened of dire consequences now. This got me so much depressed that I too slit my hand.

These people are now constantly pressurising me to marry her and I am feeling mentally harassed. I feel like doing something really bad with myself. Is there something i can do to save myself or I have or to surrender to these threats and marry her?

Pls don’t mock or make fun of me on twitter, please don’t. I am already going through a lot. If you cannot help or suggest, you can just ignore.